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Explore new sensations and build intimacy with our collection of strap-on dildos and harnesses. Perfect for all genders and experience levels, these versatile toys open the door to exciting shared experiences.
Choose from beginner-friendly sets, advanced harnesses, realistic dildos, and vibrating options, all made from body-safe materials for comfort and confidence. Whether you’re curious about pegging, experimenting with role reversal, or simply looking to add variety to your love life, there’s a perfect match here for you.
Every order is shipped in plain, discreet packaging, so you can focus on pleasure while we protect your privacy. Explore our selection today and take your intimate play to the next level.
What Are Strap-On Dildos and Harnesses?
A strap-on dildo is a toy designed to be worn using a harness system, allowing one partner to penetrate another without the use of hands.
These toys are popular for pegging, role reversal, and exploring power dynamics, but they’re equally exciting for couples of any gender who want to try something new.
Strap-on sets often include both the dildo and harness, though many users customize by mixing and matching styles to create the perfect fit.
Benefits of Strap-On Play
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Mutual exploration: Adds variety and excitement to intimate moments.
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Inclusivity: Suitable for same-sex couples and heterosexual couples exploring pegging or role play.
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Hands-free control: Harnesses keep the toy stable for natural, fluid movement.
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Customizable experience: Mix and match dildos, harness styles, and vibration features.
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Confidence and connection: Encourages communication and deeper trust between partners.
Tip: Start with adjustable harnesses and mid-sized dildos to make first-time play more comfortable and enjoyable.
Types of Strap-On Harnesses
1. Two-Strap Harnesses
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Traditional design with waist and thigh straps.
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Secure fit for stability during vigorous play.
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Compatible with most O-ring dildos.
2. Single-Strap Harnesses (Thong Style)
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Simpler, thong-like design for comfort and freedom of movement.
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Great for lighter play or beginners.
3. Underwear-Style Harnesses
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Look and feel like regular underwear with built-in support.
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Comfortable for extended wear and discreet under clothing.
4. Vibrating Strap-Ons
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Built-in vibration for simultaneous stimulation of both partners.
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Some models include remote controls for teasing and interactive play.
5. Pegging Kits
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Specially designed sets for anal play exploration.
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Include slimmer, beginner-friendly dildos and adjustable harnesses.
How to Choose the Right Strap-On Dildo
When selecting a dildo for your harness, consider:
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Material:
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Silicone – soft, body-safe, and easy to clean.
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TPE/TPR – realistic feel with flexibility.
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Glass or metal – firm and ideal for temperature play.
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Size and shape:
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Beginners → slimmer, shorter dildos for comfort.
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Intermediate users → medium-sized, slightly textured toys.
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Advanced users → larger, more realistic or dual-ended designs.
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Features:
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Vibrations for added stimulation.
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Realistic heads and veins for lifelike sensations.
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Suction bases for solo use outside the harness.
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Tips for a Comfortable Experience
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Adjust the fit: Ensure the harness is snug but not restrictive.
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Use lubricant: A water-based lube makes penetration smoother and more pleasurable.
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Practice movements: Try different positions and thrusting motions to find what feels natural.
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Communicate openly: Discuss desires, limits, and comfort levels with your partner.
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Explore gradually: Start with slower, more controlled play before increasing intensity.
Pairing Harnesses With Other Toys
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Clitoral vibrators: Combine external and internal stimulation for blended pleasure.
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Anal beads or plugs: Enhance pegging experiences with extra sensations.
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Cock rings: Add mutual stimulation for the receiving partner.
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Sensory accessories: Blindfolds or cuffs heighten anticipation and arousal.
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Lubricants and cleaners: Essential for safety and smooth play.
Strap-on Dildos & Harnesses FAQ
What’s the difference between a harness set and a standalone dildo?
A harness set includes both the strap-on dildo and the harness, ready to use right away. Standalone dildos can be paired with compatible harnesses, offering more flexibility for customization and upgrading your setup over time.
Which strap-on harness is best for beginners?
Beginner users often prefer underwear-style harnesses or adjustable two-strap designs. These provide comfort and stability while making first-time play easier. Start with a slim, lightweight dildo to build confidence before exploring larger or textured options.
Can I use different dildos with the same harness?
Yes! Most harnesses feature an O-ring system, allowing you to swap out dildos of various shapes and sizes. This makes it easy to upgrade your collection or experiment with different sensations.
Which features are worth investing in for couples play?
Vibrating functions for stimulation of both partners. Remote controls for playful teasing and interactive sessions. Quick-release buckles for easy adjustments during play. Underwear-style harnesses for discreet comfort and longer wear.
What dildo size is best for pegging?
For anal pegging, start with a slim, smooth dildo around 4–5 inches long. As comfort increases, you can progress to thicker or textured toys for more intense sensations. Lubrication is essential for comfort and safety.
Are there strap-on designs for same-sex couples?
Yes. Many harnesses and double-ended dildos are designed for mutual penetration or shared stimulation, making them popular among same-sex couples. These toys allow both partners to experience pleasure simultaneously.
Can vibrating strap-ons be controlled remotely?
Absolutely. Many vibrating strap-ons now feature wireless remotes or smartphone apps, perfect for teasing and interactive play, even at a distance.