5 Mistakes to Avoid When Buying Sex Toys

Buying a sex toy today is easier than ever, but that doesn’t mean every purchase will automatically be the right one. With thousands of options available online and in stores, it’s common to make choices that don’t fit your needs, aren’t body-safe, or simply don’t live up to your expectations. Learning what mistakes to avoid can save you money, frustration, and even protect your health.

In this article, we’ll explore five of the most common mistakes people make when buying sex toys and provide expert advice on how to shop smarter. By the end, you’ll be better prepared to choose toys that are safe, satisfying, and perfectly tailored to your desires.

Mistake #1: Ignoring Body-Safe Materials

One of the biggest and most dangerous mistakes people make when buying sex toys is overlooking the importance of body-safe materials. Not all toys on the market are made with health in mind, and some cheaper materials can cause irritation, allergic reactions, or even long-term harm.

Why Materials Matter

• Unsafe plastics and rubber may contain phthalates, a group of chemicals that can disrupt hormones.

• Porous materials absorb fluids, making them harder to clean and more likely to harbor bacteria.

• High-quality materials such as medical-grade silicone, stainless steel, glass, or ABS plastic are non-porous, hypoallergenic, and easy to sanitize.

Expert Tip

Always check the product description for “phthalate-free,” “body-safe,” or “medical-grade” labeling. If the manufacturer doesn’t list the material, it’s best to avoid it.

You can explore safe options in the Vibrators collection, where premium materials are standard.

Mistake #2: Choosing the Wrong Toy for Your Needs

Another common mistake is buying a toy that doesn’t match your preferences. What works for one person may not work for another, and choosing based on popularity alone can lead to disappointment.

External vs. Internal Stimulation

• External toys (like bullet vibrators or suction toys) focus on clitoral or surface pleasure.

• Internal toys (such as G-spot vibrators or strokers) are designed for penetration or deeper stimulation.

• Dual-use toys combine both for more versatility.

Matching the Toy to Your Desires

If you’re looking for a unique visual and tactile experience, the Evolved The Pleaser offers sleek design with powerful stimulation. For those who want something tailored to solo exploration, The One Open-Ended Stroker provides a customizable fit for different intensities.

To find the right fit, consider browsing categories like Bullet Vibrators or Masturbation Toys, depending on your needs.

Mistake #3: Overlooking Size and Intensity

It’s easy to assume that bigger toys are always better, but size and intensity should be carefully matched to your comfort and preferences. Choosing a toy that’s too large or too powerful can make the experience overwhelming instead of enjoyable.

Why Size and Intensity Matter

• Beginners often do better with smaller, less intense toys that allow them to explore safely. A great example is the Evolved The Pleaser, which offers a compact design and gentle stimulation, making it perfect for those just starting their journey.

• Advanced users may crave toys with more power, girth, or length. The The One Open-Ended Stroker is ideal for experienced users seeking a customizable, intense solo experience that goes beyond entry-level products. 
  

• Electro-stimulation toys add another layer of intensity that isn’t suitable for everyone but can be rewarding for those seeking a more advanced experience. The Mystim Sleak Freak Estim Straight Vibrator combines classic vibration with electro-stimulation, creating a unique sensation for adventurous players ready to explore new territory.
  
  

If you’re new, start with simpler options in the Vibrators Collection before experimenting with advanced designs.

Mistake #4: Forgetting About Compatibility and Features

A common mistake is buying a toy without considering its features and how it fits your lifestyle. Just like with electronics, the “extras” can make all the difference.

Features to Consider

• Rechargeable vs. battery-powered: Rechargeable toys are eco-friendly and more cost-effective over time.

• Waterproof design: Allows for bath or shower play and easier cleaning.

• App compatibility: Couples can control toys remotely for long-distance intimacy.

• Noise level: Quieter toys are better for discretion.

The We-Vibe Golden Moments 2 is an excellent example of a modern couples’ vibrator with app compatibility, customizable settings, and sleek design. It’s part of the Couples’ Toys collection, perfect for partners looking to connect in new ways.

Think beyond the basics: choose toys that fit your lifestyle and enhance your sexual experiences with convenience and flexibility.

Mistake #5: Neglecting Hygiene and Maintenance

Even the best toy won’t last or remain safe to use without proper hygiene and maintenance. Neglecting this step can shorten the lifespan of your toy and put your health at risk.

Why Care and Cleaning Matter

• Unclean toys can harbor bacteria, leading to infections.

• Improper storage can damage sensitive materials like silicone.

• Skipping maintenance reduces both safety and performance.

Best Practices

• Wash your toys before and after every use with warm water and a mild toy cleaner.

• Store toys in a dedicated pouch or case to avoid dust and material reactions.

• Check for wear and tear regularly.

A great all-in-one option is the Ouch! Florence Collection Kit With Bag Black, which includes multiple items and a stylish storage bag to keep everything safe and discreet.

For more ideas, check out the Bondage & Kits collection for complete sets that come with storage solutions.

Conclusion

Shopping for sex toys is meant to be exciting, but making uninformed choices can turn excitement into regret. By avoiding these five mistakes - ignoring body-safe materials, choosing the wrong toy for your needs, overlooking size and intensity, forgetting about compatibility and features, and neglecting hygiene - you’ll be more likely to find toys that enhance your pleasure and last longer.

Whether you’re looking for a high-tech couples’ vibrator like the We-Vibe Golden Moments 2, exploring unique designs like the Evolved The Pleaser, or building a full kit with the Ouch! Florence Collection Kit, knowledge is the key to satisfaction.

With the right information, you can approach sex toy shopping with confidence, safety, and a better understanding of what truly works for you.