Once considered to be something to be ashamed of, sex toys are becoming more and more mainstream as people are realizing their potential in the bedroom. In fact, according to a recent research, 53 percent of women have tried using a sex toy. It also helps that Hollywood stars such as Halle Berry and Eva Longoria reveal their bedroom secrets on TV shows and have endorsement contracts with sex toys manufacturers.
So what are the best sex toys that someone from the minority part that hasn’t tried them yet should use? There are vibrating and non-vibrating varieties which come in various materials, diameters, lengths and colors, so it is quite easy to get confused with this abundance of sex toys. We’ve assembled a list of products that someone who is new to the world of adult toys might try.
These can look like a penis (some even have veins and a scrotum, like this Futurotic Veined Penis vibrator) or simply a smooth long cylinder like this turquoise beauty Cascade Flow Silicone Sleeve Accessory Blue. And if you want something more than your regular-sized vibrator, you can experiment with different sizes and try one that you may have only dreamed about, like this Ultra Whopper 11 Inch Curved Dong Flesh.
This kind of vibrators is especially good for those who enjoy vaginal stimulation. You may want to choose a vibrator with a tapered end like this Allure Pink Vibrator because they allow for easier insertion.
Although vaginal stimulation definitely brings pleasure to many women, recent findings show that most of them rather buy vibrators for clitoral stimulation. Some of the popular clitoral vibrators include egg vibrators that can work both as external and internal stimulators like this Mae B Lovely Vibes Stimulator Soft Purple Egg and bullet vibrators like this Super Slim Remote Silver Bullet.
There is another advantage of clitoral vibrators that comes in very handy: since they are smaller than other sex toys, they can be put between bodies during regular intercourse to make it even more mind-blowing.
Dual Action Vibrators
Dual action vibrators can provide a combination of vaginal and clitoral stimulation at the same time. If you have watched Sex and the City, you have probably heard about rabbit vibrators which have already become a legend. They are shaped like rabbits (hence the name) and occasionally other animals, such as dolphins, mice or seahorses.
Look for a rabbit vibrator that can operate separately, like this My First Jack Rabbit Vibrator Waterproof Purple 5 Inch vibrator with two independently controlled motors – this way, you can turn on the vaginal vibrator when you need vaginal stimulation and vice versa.
G Spot Toys
You probably have heard about the magic G-Spot that lies inside the vagina and know that the chances of stimulating it with a penis are very slim, so it’s really handy that there are special sex toys designed for that! The main difference between these toys and others is that they have a curved head that allows the front vaginal wall to be easier stimulated.
You can go for a G-spot vibrator like this best-selling Platinum Edition Butterfly Kiss Multifuction Waterproof vibrator or a G-spot dildo like the Fetish Fantasy Elite 7 Inch Dildo Silicone Waterproof Pink that doesn’t vibrate but can be used in the shower.
This is not exactly a toy, but it will make any kind of penetration more pleasurable. Choose your lube carefully. For instance, a silicone lubricant is compatible with most toy materials and condoms, but if your toy is made of silicone, it is recommended to be used together with a water-based lube like this Wet Original Water Based Gel Lubricant. A dildo made of soft silicone will soon lose its shape if used with a silicone lubricant. However, if you can’t do without silicone lubricant like this Swiss Navy Silicone Lube, you can always put a condom on your sex toy first.
With or without lubricant, there is a whole abundance of sex toys to be used and enjoyed. The important thing is not to be afraid to try them. After all, they can make your sex life so much better!